Play Victim

Everyone have their own problem. I mean like are you not normal enough to not have something to worry about? 

Okay so what happen next when you have a problem? You won't really solve them because lets be honest, you must've tell your close friends about them (probably to help you the solution) and then only you find ways to solve them.

When you fight with another friend, the first thing is surely to tell your friends from your point of view, and that could lead to a huge misunderstanding since you don't know the story from another point of view. It could've saved you from making a wrong judgement. 

As for me, I admit that I can easily made my own judgement but truthfully I don't judge people. And when you only hear the situation from one side, you tend to think that the 'evil' is the other person. 

You're lucky if the friend your tell your problem to is open minded and still act the same despite all the problems. Back to the title, play victim. I really hate it when someone play victim. They make it sound as if the other is really the bad one. 

I once had the same problem, its just that I was labelled as the bad one among us. People be judging and stop talking to me when they know about me from that 'friend'. I don't know what she told them but her friends surely stop talking to me after a few days. What they don't know is that I apologized, tried talking to that 'friend' and I did everything I could to get back like we used to be but its not my fault that she refused them all. The thing is that she misunderstood my tweets for some reason. 

Okay so tell me why should I keep myself from tweeting the things that I wanted to say. Twitter is public and you get to say anything you want. If you happen to feel like the tweet is indirectly about you, then its not the tweet owner's problem. ITS YOUR PROBLEM. 

Well, I'm sorry and I'm sure that shoes fit perfectly since you feel like those tweets were about you.

"When you judge other, you do not define them, you define yourself."

You still have a long way to go, so its fine to make mistakes and learn.

I.x