Just a little something

Give.

Yes, we're always welcome to grant people with something. In fact, kita memang seharusnya sentiasa memberi or should i say bersedekah. Its a good deed that Rasulullah even advised us to do to ensure the goodness of the Afterlife. Walau sekecil-kecil dan sesimple kertas tisu yang diminta oleh kawan lepas makan tu pun kira "give".

But don't allow yourself to be used.

When we give a lot, people tend to take advantages on us. Theres always a limitation in every thing we do (except imagination, bak kata spongebob) sebab bila kita memberi terlalu banyak dan orang menerima terlalu banyak, they can take our kindness for granted. Happens the whole time, i might add. So it is good to give but never allow yourself to be used by people.

Love.

A simple one word l-o-v-e could lead to many possibilities. Love can mend our soul, love can make we feels like we're in a whole new world (a happy world), love makes us feel like we means something for someone. Love. It could be the feeling of love between a mother to her daughter, a son to his father, a fan to her idols, or a boyfriend to his girlfriend. We can never imagine how love can change one's world, how they saved one and another's life. I wouldnt't to tell more about love because love is so general that a three years old kid can imagine how.

But don't allow your heart to be abused.

As i was saying love can lead to anything. Love can make one people to sacrifice everything (and when i said everything, i mean EVERYTHING). True, but learn to love your heart before you love someone to death. This event usually happen between a pair of lover, they tend to share everything with each other without thinking the consequences that they might be getting into. If and only if you are completely sure that your partner will be yours forever (which you're not), then go ahead. I'm not stopping you. But don't allow your heart to be abused. Chin up.

Trust.

Trust. This speaks to myself. I trust people easily like so eASY about their feelings. I admit i have social anxiety but there's no way that you can trust anyone. Tapis orang before trusting them and even the infos that they gave to you.

But don't be naive.

Being a naive is good when you know to differentiate the good and the bad one. But nope, still nope. Being a naive is like you're attach to someone and you'd do anything for them. You have no strength to fight them back. You're too weak for them. You just feel so insecure, so unsure with your own self. If they suruh to buatkan homework for them, you do. If they wants you to kick someone's asses for them, you kick the ass. If they wants you to jump off a cliff also you want to jump ke? If they suruh you go naked in public, nak ke? Think.

Listen.

Listening to other people's opinion is a good attitude for a pemimpin. Listening to someone's problem can ease the burden they've been carrying. Listen is a powerful noun that could change the world by just sit there doing nothing but listen. Listen and pay attention during the lecture can change your grades that can change your future. Listen to people mourning about their loved one who has gone forever might not seems much but it means a lot to them.

But don't lose your voice.

Everyone deserve to be heard, to be listen to. But kalau semua pun nak bagi opinion, kau bila pulak? Jangan sampai they took you for granted and they choose to never listen to you because you were listening too much (?) okay that was a really reaaaally weird statement. Jangan sampai diorang ingat kau tak mampu nak buat apa-apa because you just follow whatever they said. Just don't lose your voice lah.

This post was pretty shit idek why i wrote those, its like elaborating essays. Okay i'm just stating the obvious so good luck.

You still have a long way to go, so its fine to make mistakes and learn.

I.x